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Watching Carlos Alcaraz at the Australian Open, one thing stood out: when the pressure rises, he doesn’t play safe—he plays to win. In this Short Tales of Psychology, we explore why pressure often pushes us into a loss-avoidance mindset and how shifting our focus from protecting what we have to expressing our best game can transform performance.

James Dyson failed 5,126 times before changing how the world cleans. His story reminds us that success isn’t about avoiding failure—it’s about learning from it. In this edition of Short Tales of Psychology, we explore why fear of being wrong limits innovation and how awareness of our avoidance behaviours can free us to experiment, grow, and perform at our best.

After years of hiding his Parkinson’s diagnosis, Michael J. Fox made a courageous decision to share his truth -and found freedom on the other side. This piece explores what his story teaches us about fear, authenticity, and the psychological cost of keeping secrets.

Dave Grohl’s agent called and asked if he was sitting down – the universal sign that a bomb is about to drop. Fear and anxiety ripe as the Foo Fighters’ frontman held the phone to his ear. His agent went on, “The Academy Awards called. They want you to perform Blackbird by yourself on the

Haruki Murakami has a rather unique relationship with time. On the one hand, time is fleeting and it fuels his urgency, ensuring a steady output of words when writing novels. On the other hand, he sees time as abundant, allowing him ample opportunity to let his work settle before releasing it to the world. The

Madison Keys has won her first Grand Slam, defeating world No. 1 Aryna Sabalenka to claim the 2025 Australian Open title. But this victory was far from a foregone conclusion. It wasn’t just about facing the top-ranked player in the world in the final—it was about overcoming a battle she had once lost within herself.

For some tasks in our work life, urgency comes easy. You know, preparing for a pitch, sending a sales contract or hitting our boss’s deadline. Urgency tends to emerge when there are external drivers like being evaluated, accountability or immediate consequences. Let’s call this fear-driven urgency. Perhaps it’s creative work like writing a blog, starting

On the day of a Grand Slam night match, most tennis pros try to control every aspect of their preparation—from sleep in their hotel room to hooking themselves up to performance-enhancing machines, analysing the match ahead, and eating the perfect amount of calories. But not Roger Federer, who was often seen strolling through one of

In the early ‘90s, Yvon Chouinard, the founder of Patagonia, had a problem. Well, two problems. The first was growing pains. Patagonia entered the new decade riding a wave of 30-50% annual growth, but with it came a fragmented company structure that was inefficient and lacked unity. So Yvon sought the counsel of the late

Believe it or not, performance anxiety is your friend. And it’s really common, even among world-class performers like Adele, Nadal, Emma Stone, Andrea Bocelli, Lorde, Meryl Streep, and Jay Z, who have openly discussed their pre-performance nerves. Our anxiety gets misunderstood. It actually primes us for performance by sending signals to our body that the